WHY DO MARRIED MEN FLIRT

Flirting is often viewed as a way to meet potential mates. An overly flirtatious husband can cause several types of marriage problems. Often, the wife feels hurt, rejected, and alone.

The most common reasons why married men flirt:

-He is having a midlife crisis

-He is unhappy with wife

-He is not sexually attracted to his wife

-He likes the attention other women give him

-He is bored with married life

-He is insecure about self

-It makes him feel better about himself

-He needs to validate his attractiveness and sexuality

-He thinks flirting is harmless

-He is looking to have an affair

-It is exciting

-To meet emotional needs such as feeling liked, being popular, or being thought of as funny, entertaining, attractive, or sexy

-As a passive-aggressive way of getting even with the wife. He may have felt rejected sexually and emotionally, so the flirting can be a message to the partner to shape up or risk losing the marriage

-An attempt to get the wife's attention

What to do if your husband flirts

If your husband flirts, take a little time to yourself and think about how you feel when he flirts. Once you are familiar with your feelings talk with your husband about them. Talk with him in a non-confrontational way. Be careful not to threaten him. Let him know exactly how you feel and would it would take for you to feel better. Your husband might not realize he flirts. He also might not realize how it makes you feel. If your husband doesn't want to talk to you about it or says that you are over-reacting, try talking to him again when he is more receptive. For instance, he might be less willing to listen to you if he is drunk or has just come home after a stressful day at work. He may be more open to listen and talk about it on his day off from work or on a Saturday afternoon.

THINGS WOMEN DESPERATELY WANT FROM MEN

Someone once said 'To generalize on women is dangerous. To specialize on them is infinitely worse'.

Well, what women want still remains the un-answered question across the globe. However, men needn't lose hope for all is not lost. There are still a good number of things that most women like. Here are a few from the long list which can perhaps help you make her fall head over heels in love with you. Take your pick to woo and sweep her off her feet!

Strong man

Women love to be protected. So show in more ways than one to prove that you will be her saviour should your damsel land in distress! Women are always in awe of men who can step up in times of conflicts. Be sure you grab every opportunity that situation throws at you.

Transparency

Honesty is still the best policy. Never lie to her if you are thinking of a long-term relationship. Never mind you will face some initial flak, but eventually you will win over her trust.

Smell good

Deodorant Ads may be going overboard showing men being lured by women's perfume. But the other way is also true. Choose a deo that suits you. Especially if it's your first date, it's best not to try anything experimental. Know what smells best on you. Remember, what smelt heavenly on your friend might stink on your skin! For everything depends on your body odour. When you spray perfume on your body, what you smell is a combination of the deo spray and your body odour. Choose wise.

Surprises galore

Women love surprises be it chocolates, love notes, gifts or even a bouquet of flowers. Women don't mind them in any numbers. You are sure to score brownie points with this one!

Perfect body

What with the celebrities being obsessed with getting a six pack or eight pack abs, girls too go ga ga over men with a well-toned body. Get into the habit of regular workout so you can make heads turn!

Dress well

Nothing turns off a women than a poorly-dressed man. Do a style-check, spot the trends in fashion, speak to a stylist to find out what looks best on you. Clothes maketh man literally!

Crowning glory

Nothing like a funky haircut! A good hairstyle can give you a different look altogether. What are you waiting for? Get that stunner look so you can impress that chick you have been eyeing.

Magic of your hands

You might have taken your girlfriend to the hottest restaurants in town, yet she will not mind if you can cook one of her favourite dishes (or even plain instant noodles) when she's hungry. Such moments are never forgotten.

There's a joke doing the rounds that 'A woman's mind is cleaner than a man's That's because she changes it more often'. However, there are some things that remain constant.

THINGS NEVER TO SHARE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND

Where to draw the line in a relationship is very important. Certain information should only be limited to you. 

Personal affairs call for careful attention. And when it comes to a relationship, it makes all the more sense to keep certain personal information and details to self. The same applies to your boyfriend too. You too might be having very true and genuine feelings for each other, but being careful always helps one as an individuals. Here's a list of things never to share with your boyfriend

Your password

This is a big NO NO when it comes to sharing something with your boyfriend. Be it your email or Facebook or twitter id password, keep the sensitive information to yourself. Even though you might trust him a lot and also love him beyond words, but there are certain things like passwords that you should never share.. Let you two have your different worlds.

Your diary

It may seem romantic to share your thoughts by sharing your diary, but that too is highly avoidable. Never ever should you let your boyfriend know how you think and what you think.

Personal pics and videos taken on your smartphone

If the pics of you two are clicked or videos are taken on your smartphone, do not transfer those to him. Transfer those to your computer or tablet. And delete from your database. If they are of too intimate in nature and you do not like the whole set of relatives of either side take notice of those, delete them from your smartphone silently without informing him.

Your dislike for his family

It is best you keep this secret to yourself and not let this one out either to him or your friends. There will always be some who cannot get along well with their boyfriend’s mother or sister. You need not tell him this. Not only will it make him sad but it might also ruin your relationship.

Your secrets

You never know when a relationship can go sour. So avoid sharing all the crucial and sensitive information that is related to you till you are sure of his conduct and intentions. If he is too inquisitive, just give a rough sketch of you as a person, but do not give too many details of your life.

Best friend's secrets

Your best friend has been there and done that for you all the time. But don't make the mistake of revealing your best friend's secret to him. This will be absolute betrayal to your best friend. So keep some secrets to yourself.

Your past….in detail 

Well even if you’ve mentioned about your ex boyfriend to your current one, make sure you do not give out too many details to him. Keep this a secret. It does not mean that you are cheating on him. It just shows that you do not want unnecessary trouble.

WAYS TO IMPRESS YOUR CRUSH BEING YOURSELF

When you have a crush on a guy, you can't stop thinking about your crush, and it's time to make a move! 

But what should you do to make a good impression? Wearing something that makes you look fly is a good start. Once he looks your way, striking up a fun conversation and flashing him a sincere smile will also grab his attention. 

There are tons of ways to impress him. 

Here are few ways to impressing your crush.

Be Confident

Greet him with a "Hey" or "Hi" and wave, and start up a friendly conversation. It should be something you both can relate to.

Internal Qualities

You know what your best qualities are. If you’re intelligent, start up a conversation about something that will flaunt your smarts. If you’re athletic, challenge him to a game of basketball. Put yourself into a situation that will benefit you. Don’t volunteer to help him fix his car if you’ve never looked at an engine before. Play up your strengths.

Dress to Impress

It’s no surprise that men enjoy gazing at gorgeous women. Wear pretty attire to make his jaw drop. Just like your internal traits, you have some great external traits. What part of your body are you most confident about? If you love your legs, wear a great pair of shorts around him. If you think you have beautiful eyes, wear make-up that will make them stand out even more. Draw attention to the things you like, and you’ll know he’ll love what he sees too.  Wear something that shows off your curves but isn't too revealing.

Common Connections

Try to find something you have in common. If you have something in common with him, it’s bound to build a connection. You don’t have to do something spectacular in order to capture his attention. Little things, like shared interests, work just as well.  Once you find something, talk to him about it! Make him think that he can really get to know you, and even become your friend.

Smile and Stay Positive

Every boy likes it if you smile to him. Make sure to smile every few times you see him. It doesn't matter if you have braces or anything else getting in the way of your smile, if he's the right guy he won't care! Be nice and friendly and he will notice that you have respect for him.

Be Open and Direct. 

Making eye contact, turning towards someone when they're talking, and standing up straight are all ways of making yourself seem more bold and interested in a person. Practice good body language and posture, and also practice speaking in a clear tone of voice. Look at him from time to time. If you see him looking back at you, hold his gaze for about half a second and look away. Then slowly drag your eyes back to his. These things will help you to get your message across when you like someone- namely, your crush!

Pursue Your Passion

Don’t you love hearing your friends talk about something they’re passionate about? Even if they love music, and you can’t play a note, it’s nice to see them get excited about something. Try talking to your crush about whatever your passion is. If you’re excited about it, it can make him excited about it as well. Just don’t go on for too long if you see him starting to nod off.

Show Off Skills

You’re good at something, and you know it. It could be telling jokes, or drawing, or singing. Whatever it is, find a way to show your crush your talent. If he sits next to you in class, draw a picture that’s so fabulous, it’s bound to catch his attention. If you’re older, ask him to go to the karaoke bar with you, and then show off your fantastic vocal skills. One of the best ways to impress him is by finding something you’re already good at, and comfortable doing, and showing him how it’s done.

Brag a Bit

No one likes to hear someone brag about their accomplishments every chance that they get. However, if you once won a short story contest, and the topic comes up in conversation, don’t be afraid to mention your win. As long as you don’t go overboard, and stay modest, it should impress any guy.

Get him to notice you

Walk past either laughing, talking to your mates or eating some chips, or any other casual thing. Talk about parties, clubs, or things that make you seem cool or athletic, etc. behind his back loudly, but casually. You never know - you may see him there.

It Pays To be Nice

It sounds silly, but men are impressed by genuinely nice women. Unfortunately, it's rare to spot someone that actually cares about others. If you treat your teachers, coworkers, and waiters with respect, you just might impress him enough to score a date.

Don't change Yourself

Don't change yourself to get him to like you back. Even if your crush isn't big on school, this doesn't mean you should drop out of all your honor's classes. Never, ever, ever change for someone else- only change for yourself. This includes all guys, because any guy worth your time will realize how awesome the real you is and not expect you to change one bit.If they're not into your normal self, they're not the one for you.

As long as you're true to yourself, you can't go wrong. Any guy that doesn't like you for you doesn't deserve you. What is the most impressive thing that someone can do that will get your attention?

Few More  Important Tips

-Never tell your friends to talk to him for you, it will make you look like a coward, and maybe in some circumstances he will start liking your friends instead of you because obviously he talks more to your friends than you.

-Be nice and friendly. No one wants to be friends with someone who makes them feel bad about themselves.

-Don't do things you don't want to do. Just be yourself.

-Have fun trying to win his heart!

-Fluff his ego then walk away. Not only is he left wanting more, but he is under the impression that it's his idea!

-If he no longer goes to the same school as you, but you know you might be going there yourself, then there is the perfect time for you to practice your tips for next year.

Warnings

-Don't expose your love for him, because then he will know and he might not reciprocate the feelings.

-If your crush tells you that he is with some other girl, try not to take it so hard on yourself and don't  get so jealous and heartbroken.

-Try not to go overboard with impressing him.

-If he plays a sport you don't like at all, don't just play the sport to impress him! Find something else you have in common!

-If you want to date him right away don't, just take it easy with him.

-Don't dress sexy. Dress simple, but hot, fashionable, and trendy.

HOW TO KEEP HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

Every one crave a healthy relationship but may not know the ways to keep relationship healthy. Through life’s ups and downs there are sure ways to keep a relationship healthy and deepen your connection to each other every day. 

Relationships are all about getting along with someone that you spark a love interest with. If you don't get along, it's not really a relationship is it? You can wait for your broken relationship to crumble to pieces.

Here are some of the most influential ways that will help your relationship flourish!

Trust Each other 

Don't lie, don't cheat, and trust them when they say they aren't. Why would you be in a relationship if  your just going to be unfaithful? Don't ever lie and make up feelings. Don't say "I love you" unless you feel it, and if they don't say it back it's okay, it takes longer for others. If they have a friend of the opposite sex, don't automatically be mean and nasty all the time to your partner and their friend. It is possible to just be friends, and if your feelings are true for each other this shouldn't even be a issue.

Be Open and Honest With Each Other

One of the most influential ways to keep your relationship healthy is to be open and honest. This means maintaining a level of respect for each other’s boundaries and always talking through everything together. There should be no outside forces driving either of you to make decisions between the two of you because as long as you’re both open and honest with each other, you will both grow and compromise and love each other more and more!

Understand Each other

Being understanding of each other’s decisions, lifestyles, and future desires is crucial in developing a healthy relationship. Learn how to read each other’s body language, how to read each other’s facial expressions, and how to read each other’s thoughts. Understanding each other incorporates all of the bullets I just mentioned in this article because understanding is the root of your relationship. Once you both understand each other, you can then grow together and maintain a healthy relationship.

Encourage Each other

In keeping decisions between the two of you, make sure to encourage one another through the process. You know the expression: it takes two to tango. I can tell you from experience that unless there is encouragement in a relationship, the two of you will fall apart. If he has a dream or goal, support him and show him your encouragement. If you have a big dream or goal, he should equally be supporting and encouraging you!

Give Each Other Space

Part of having a healthy relationship also means giving each other space in addition to sharing those fun, flirty, and new experiences together. Giving each other space builds trust and love between the two of you because it allows both of you to grow as individuals as well as grow as a pair. If you can both feel happy and at peace while being apart, that means you both trust each other enough to still have a personal life.

Stay Fun and Flirty

Don’t be that couple that gets together to stay inside all day and watch TV like an old married couple. Sure snuggle movie dates are a lot of fun and much needed, but keeping your relationship healthy means going out and doing fun things together! Remember how thrilling it was to get all dolled up for a date and get your flirt on when you first started dating? Feel that again by flirting with each other as if you just met. Plan a date night, go all out with makeup and attire, and get your flirt on girl!

Try Something New

Just as staying fun and flirty adds spice to your relationship, trying new things together will also bring spice and flavor! If you guys have been planning a weekend get-away together but things have gotten in the way, prioritize to plan that weekend! This is one of the most engaging and creative ways to get closer and stay together longer.

Don't Be Afraid to Share Emotions

Sure guys are not always the first to open up about emotions, but sharing how you feel about your relationship and how you feel about your guy is extremely important. If you keep your emotions bottled up there will never be open communication and your relationship will not grow in a healthy and beautiful way. The more you both can share about how you feel during difficult situations as well as sharing your joy while things are going great, the closer and more in love you will fall.

Learn how to Resolve Conflicts

Another important part of a healthy relationship is learning how to handle the tough times. Couples will fight, disagree, and argue – we all know that to be true so it’s HOW you both resolve the issues that will keep you together. In an argument or disagreement, it’s important that both of you feel you’re being heard: allow yourself and him to take a turn to talk/vent before resolving anything. The goal is not to win but to meet in the middle with love and affection.

Be Open to Changes

Life isn’t perfect just as relationships are not perfect. If you can internalize this reality you’re already steps ahead. Life will inevitably throw curve balls that may come between you and your guy, but being open to change is a healthy way to get closer in your relationship. Keeping an open mind will give you peace that no matter what, through the good and the bad, your relationship will always get stronger and you will be able to face anything in the future.

Control Anger and Stay Calm

Anger is a waste of time. Anger is also a relationship killer, because it makes you self-absorbed and won't allow you to see the good. If you are annoyed with your mate, give yourself some time to calm down and then gently discuss what's going on for you.

No matter what phase of the relationship you’re in right now, keep these 9 influential ways to keep your relationship healthy in mind. These tips serve as a guide that will become glue for you both as you embark on your journey of life together. How will you keep your relationship healthy?

HOW TO KNOW HE IS JUST USING YOU

Men and women often want different things from their relationships. If you're emotionally involved with a guy, it's possible that he might not feel as deeply. It happens to the best of you, you are hanging out with a guy, having a good time, but underneath it all something just doesn’t feel quite right. Well, ladies, the reason could be because a guy is using you. We’re not saying it’s definite, If he is using you, there will be some signs right out in the open, but you might not know it! If you have a feeling that he is using you, it might not be a healthy relationship to be in.

Some men are just out for a hookup buddy...

Ladies, you deserve better than just someone using you!!!

Here are few how to know if you're being used:

HE ISN'T TRUE TO HIS WORDS 

This man knows how to speak to your heart, and you love the things that he says to you, but as we all know, actions speak louder than words. No matter how his words make you feel, if he isn’t proving them to you and living up to them, his words hardly mean a thing at all.

HE'S ONLY AVAILABLE WHEN HE NEEDS SOMETHING FROM YOU

What about his availability? Do you constantly find that he isn't available unless he needs something from you? This is definitely a sign he is using you. After all, don't you want a guy that is going to be available when you need him to be? Not just when he needs you?

FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT ON YOU

Not only do you pay for everything, but he is actually financially dependent on you. He expects you to pay all of the bills that you two have, no questions asked. He doesn't even contribute to the monthly bills that he has racked up with you. This is a sign he is using you and you shouldn't stand for it!

YOU PAY EVERY TIME YOU GO OUT

Even though the guy is supposed to pay in the beginning, you constantly find yourself paying for every single thing when you two go out. Does that seem to be the case with your relationship? That's definitely one of the top signs he is using you. While it's okay to split the bill, you shouldn't constantly be pulling your wallet out to pay all of the time.

EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL

When something goes wrong, this man is somehow able to push the blame onto you. No matter what the problem is, some way or another, this guy is able to pinpoint you as the one who caused it to happen. When a guy does nothing but blame you for the bad things in his life, he’s truly only putting you through emotional blackmail. Leave this guy and let him suffer through his own issues.

YOU ARE HIS CONVENIENCE

Are you constantly finding yourself his convenience for a ride or for an 'allowance'? That should never be the case when you are in a mature relationship. Everything should be even; you should never be someones 'convenience'.

HE NEVER BUYS ANYTHING SPECIAL FOR YOU

In a relationship, it’s all about give and take. On your man’s birthday, you shower him with gifts, and you’re the type of woman to buy him a present here and there, just because. On the other hand, this guy rarely gives you anything that shows he cares about you. If you’re with a guy who can’t treat you to something nice every once-in-a-while. That's a sign ladies. After all, shouldn't your boyfriend buy you some things sometimes?

HE IS ONLY AROUND WHEN HE NEEDS YOU

When it’s convenient for you, this man shows up or makes time to contact you. If he needs a ride to work, needs a lunch, or needs a few dollars to pay his cell phone bill, he’s contacting you as quickly as possible. However, when he isn’t in need of anything you can provide, rarely do you hear from him and rarely is he around. When a guy is using you, he’ll usually only show up when it’s convenient. It's a sign girls!

DOESN'T CONSIDER YOUR FEELINGS

Does your boyfriend take any of your feelings into account? 

Does he even think about how his actions affect you?

No matter how much you tell this guy that certain things make you tick or make you sad, he doesn’t seem to take it in and consider your thoughts and feelings. Instead, he does what he wants to do without ever stopping to think about how his actions may make you feel. One of the biggest signs that a guy is using you is the fact that he couldn’t care less about your feelings.  This could be a sign he is using you ladies!

HE ONLY COMES HOME AT NIGHT

Once you see a pattern that your partner comes home late at night, it is a sure red flag in your relationship. Although it is typical for some men to come back late after a night with friends, usually this as a frequent and cyclical pattern can only mean that he wants you for one thing only. And that doesn't include anything along the lines of emotional bonding.

NEVER TAKES YOU OUT IN PUBLIC

Dating, especially at its early stages, should not be done in secret unless there are extreme circumstances. Your partner should feel comfortable being seen with you, no matter the time or day. However, if he insists on a private relationship, you know that it will be doomed sooner or later.

NEVER GOES THROUGH WITH YOUR PLANS

If a men is interested in getting to know you, he will put in every effort in order to see you and get the chance to talk to you. When you two get to spend time together, things go pretty well. But, when you make plans to spend time with him, he’s often the one that has to cancel the plans, and most of the time his excuses aren’t very good ones. your partner doesn't seem to care about spending time together. Continuously cancelled plans are a good sign that a guy is using you.

IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU

Once you realize that your partner has no interest in getting to you as a person and what you stand for, you know that he can't possibly be genuine about his feelings toward you. After all if his interest doesn't lie in you, unfortunately he might be using you for something else.

NEVER INTRODUCING YOU TO FRIENDS OR FAMILY

We all know that the next step in a serious relationship is meeting the friends and the family. However, if your partner never comes around to it and keeps changing the subject, you know that he doesn't see a future nor does he plan it with you. If he doesn't take the relationship seriously, he will have no intention of bringing you into his inner circle.

YOUR GUT IS WARNING YOU

Sometimes when your head says one thing and your heart says another, you have to listen to your gut. You might have doubts about your other half for a reason and it only makes sense to explore them to ensure the validity of those feelings. If you feel that something is not right, don't just ignore what your gut is telling you because believe it or not, sometimes everything is not what it seems.

THERE IS NO EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

If there is no emotional connection between two people, the only reason for the existence of a relationship between them is purely based on selfish interests. Think about it, if there is no emotional and psychological link between two people, the only thing that is anchoring them to each other are physical needs or selfish motives.

Ladies, if you see any of these signs he is using you, it isn't a healthy relationship. So girls, have you ever been in a relationship that had any of these signs he is using you?

COMPLIMENTS YOUR MAN WANTS TO HEAR

Unlike the ones from the opposite sex, women are accustomed to receiving compliments - from the random guy at the pub to the street whistler! On the other hand, men rarely get a compliment. So fire off a meaningful compliment to your man and make way for a steaming night ahead.

Here are few compliments men love to hear, and should be hearing from you. Let him know that you appreciate him and that he's special.

What would I do without you?

Guys love to feel needed. Whether it is to help you understand bank work or simply open a jam jar — it is one of the greatest feelings for a man that you can't live without them. Cuddle him and tell him it would have been impossible for you to do anything without him.

I respect you

It might seem old-fashioned, but men and women are different. We don't think the same, talk the same, or respond the same to similar situations. Women want to feel loved, cherished and safe. Men want respect. Since men often withdraw when they don't feel that respect, it's worth giving him the positivity he craves. A man wants to know that you are focusing solely on him and that he is your priority. When you do focus on him, you will get so much in return.

Crave to spend more time with you

Sometimes you need to connect with his inner being as well. No matter how much you compliment him on his looks or his skills — your efforts will go waste if you don't let him know how much you love him and want to be with him. Tell him that it is his innate characteristics that draw you closer to him.

I am proud of you

Men are very sensitive to performance issues. They worry about disappointing you. Telling him that he's the best, most loving man has a megawatt positive impact. Men need reassurance that they are doing a good job.

I Feel Safe When I'm With You

No matter how independent you are, your guy wants to know that he makes you feel protected (even if you are the spider-killer in your relationship).

You are excellent at your job!

Praising your guy's brain power is a must! Every guy wants to know that he is awesome at his task. Go that extra mile and tell him how much you admire him for the way he shows his dedication and loyalty towards his work. This one will touch him...really!

That was delicious

Men have a primordial need to provide for their women. While their intentions are typically good, their culinary skills might be lacking. Reward him for his efforts nonetheless. If you lambast him for dry chicken, he'll feel insecure, and won't want to try again. Sometimes it truly is the thought that counts — especially when Chinese take-out is just a phone call away.

I am happy with you

It might sound like something your mom told you, but it's true, If you want to be in a fulfilling relationship, you must first be happy with who you are. You can't put pressure on your partner to be the sole source of your bliss. If you are who you are fully and completely with no armor, you will magnetize and attract the perfect person for you because light attracts the light.

Boy, you can work it!

Tell your man how awesome he is in the bedroom — this one definitely ranks at the top of his list! A guy dies to hear how good he is at the skills he works so hard to perfect.

You're so freaking hot!

This is one compliment that will instantly lift his spirits. Complimenting a guy on his good looks is okay, but it is a different thing altogether to tell him what makes him so desirable — serve up his accolade, gently touch his body parts to add an extra sizzle to it.

You make me better

He loves you and will do anything for you, so when you find yourself trapped in a routine and feeling somewhat spark-less, the biggest compliment you can give him is a reminder that he's improved your life.

I trust you

You've probably got this one covered, but communicating it is all in the timing. "The best time to share your feelings with your guy is just before or during sex. At that time, levels of oxytocin, a hormone that enhances feelings of trust, love and intimacy, are elevated, making it the very best moment to love talk with your partner. It's also the ideal time to let him know what you want from him in the relationship, as he will be the most receptive and open.

You look handsome

It may sound obvious, but men enjoy a good ego-stroking, especially when they're not trying to impress.

Your friends are fun

There are nights you'd much prefer to stay home with a Say Yes to the Dress marathon than endure hours of beer-guzzling with his former frat brothers, but these guys are a part of his past and it's important to let him know that you love every aspect of him — even if you're glad he's grown up a bit since his keg-stand days. Going to his social events or family functions makes you see your boyfriend through other people's eyes and remember why you started dating him.

LOL

Being able to make my boyfriend laugh is the most gratifying feeling. Laughter triggers the release of protective endorphins which manage pain and promote feelings of well-being. Even if he's no stand-up comedian, a good-natured giggle will make you both happier.

It's not your fault

We all have bad days, and it's easy to take out the anger you feel towards your boss on your husband. Although you may know deep down that it's not actually your man you're upset with, he still might take your mean words to heart. Instead, level with him about why you're cranky. He'll be your best advocate.

I am sorry sweetheart

When an irrational fight arises out of a silly situation, the best thing to do is to apologize before it escalates into something bigger, and a lot meaner. He's not always the enemy. Sometimes hormones, or even lack of calories are the culprits.

Thank you

It's easy to overlook the small gestures, like when he swaps out his toothbrush head for yours or straightens up the apartment even if you're not having friends over. Instead of issuing a passive aggressive, "it's about time!" thank him. Catch him doing something right every day. Whether it's that he made your coffee just the way you like it, or holds the door for you, tell him how much you appreciate his efforts and, above all, be specific about what he did and how it made you feel. That way, he'll know exactly what he's done well, and he'll do it more often.

FEW THINGS GUYS NOTICE ABOUT YOU INSTANTLY

You know that look where his eyes slide past you...then turn back? Wouldn’t it be great to know what stopped him? You totally can. 

There are a few things men instantly observe when they meet a woman.

Usually, when a guy sees a girl, his eyes automatically look at her face. And he thinks about whether or not she is pretty to him. But what if his first glimpse of you is the back of your head? Some guys have said that they can tell if a girl is pretty or not just by looking at the back of her head! Wanna know how? Her hair! A girl's hair is a dead-give away on how she takes care of herself and presents herself. Make sure your hair is shiny, luscious and bouncy. Even if you don't have time to curl it everyday, at least make sure it's clean and combed out. Your hair should look like it smells heavenly and feels like silk!

Here are few things he will notice about you in 10 mins

Sunny Smile: The way you smile can say a lot about the person you are. Make sure that if you are meeting a guy for the first time you are don't come across as someone who's eager to please him and therefore is laughing at all his jokes a tad too enthusiastically. At the same time don't appear too stern by keep a serious face. So get you some teeth whitener and breath strips and get ready to shine, even on days you don't feel like it. It's one of the things guys notice!

Dress It Up: Guys love women who wear unique and interesting clothing over showing too much skin. They would rather you wear something like hot pink skinny jeans, a fox sweater, and a leather jacket than see you with barely anything on. Whether you are a tom boy or a girly girl... all is revealed by the way you dress and most guys will decide whether to make a move or back off just by looking at the way you dress.

Your Attitude: Probably the most important non-physical thing that guys notice first about a girl is her attitude. A girl can be as beautiful as a sun goddess and as sexy as all get-out, but if she has a bad or ugly attitude, a guy will drop her faster than you can say hello. No man wants to be tied down to a mean witch! So make sure that attitude is in ship-shape, and I guarantee you a guy will notice. I realize we all have bad days, just try not to let the bad days have YOU!

Perfect Posture: A girl who carries her head high and stands straight and tall sends a message out into the crowd. It says, "Hey, I'm confident, comfortable and sexy. I'm the girl you want to get to know!" That's one of the things guys notice first about a girl! Just think how someone with slumpy, slouchy shoulders looks. Would YOU want to get to know someone who walked around like they had the weight of the world on their shoulders?

Your Drink: The best way to figure you out is by your drink. Your drink can demystify you within no time. Like if you are a woman between 21-24 having rum and coke, you may be thought to be someone who doesn't have an adventurous life.

Hair Scare: Are Plain Janes associated with a bun? The kind of hairstyle you sport is definitely going to leave an impression. An out of the bed look is fine, but if your hair is downright messy then it can be a major turn off.

Watch Your Cleavage: Yes, if he is a man he is bound to check out your cleavage. So, be aware of what you are projecting yourself to be. A buttoned-up shirt is likely to give you a conservative look, while showing off too much may make you seem like an easy girl. So know what you are showing.

What You Carry Around: What's in your Purse? Believe it or not, your purse and other stuff you take with you reveal a lot about your personality! If your purse  resembles a haversack it's not going to be very appealing, you may not be high maintenance, but if you keep bringing out stuff it may give a guy an impression that you are a hoarder or high maintenance.

High Heels Shoe: Not that you have to wear high heels every single day, but a girl in a pair of skyscrapers is one thing that guys notice first. High heels symbolize sexiness, strength and boldness. So don't be afraid to pop those babies on every now and then! Mix it up between heels and flats, but make sure you wear heels at least a couple times a week. You never know when Mr. Right will bump into you. And I always say it's best to be prepared!

Can you talk? Don't try to fake interests where you have none. So if the guy is talking about football and you have no clue about it, don't pretend to be an avid fan. Just tell him outright that this isn't your field of expertise.

Glam it up or tone it down: You don't need to look like an made up doll if you are at a coffee shop, similarly don't look like you have had no time to even wash your face if you are at a party. Neither is appealing, and a guy is bound to notice.

Clean It Up: We are talking about your skin here. Guys don't notice things like a blemish on your face. But a fake tan or just an unwashed face can be a turn off. It's okay to not put on any make up, but ensure that you look clean.

Hold Yourself: The way you sit or stand or move tell a lot about you. Fidgeting too much in your seat is a clear indication of your nervousness, while sitting far too straight may make you seem a bit stressed. Relax, be calm and just be yourself.